the blueprints of me.

This isn’t true for everyone! My best friend and I were having this conversation on sex and love.

When I was talking to him about the difference between sex and love, it suddenly presented itself clearer to me.

When it comes to most women, we want love first and sex is extra. I’m not saying we do not enjoy it, but it is not what we aim for first. I believe that our actions are more emotionally based. We do things to truly want our significant other to feel loved, special, etc.

I also understand that women are supposedly more emotional, but I feel like it is an excuse men use to make their actions seem less fucked up.

When it comes to most men, they want sex first and hey if love comes, then why not. If it doesn’t, oh well. Primarily, mens’ actions are driven by the possibility of getting some. Most men will disagree to play it safe. But when they truly think about it, their true colors come out. They love sex more than they love love.

—rtz.

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